There are many options for going on a first date. Going to the movies, going bowling, having a picnic together or even going to a museum. But what if the girl you are dating says she wants to go wine tasting? Is she somebody who really enjoys the nuances of different wines such as the delicate aroma, color and subtle hints of flavors? Or is she somebody who just wants to get drunk?
It's an important distinction. Something I've learned in alcohol awareness classes is that people often create hobbies for themselves that mask a bad habit. For example, somebody might like to brew beer in their basement. They say they do it because they like the authentic flavor of homemade beverages. But it could also be the case that they want an excuse for drinking all the time.
The same can said for a potential date that says they want to go wine tasting. Is it that they really appreciate the differences between merlot and cabernet grapes? Or do they just want an excuse to drink glass after glass of red wine in an environment that this is considered socially acceptable? There are certain signs that are dead give aways. For example, does she always seem to be drinking a glass of wine when you come to pick her up for a date? Or does her trash always seem to be filled with empty bottles? Or is she saying how "Napa" is her favorite place to visit.
In any case, there's nothing wrong with drinking wine if it's done in moderation. But to join a hobby just because it creates an opportunity to drink, is never a good idea. If you've know a girl who acts like this, consider suggesting that she take a 12 hour alcohol awareness class. Or better yet, maybe she's somebody you should stay away from.
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